Listening Practices That Honor Elders
Open with gratitude and a tangible object—perhaps a wooden spoon, spool, or family photograph—to focus attention. Use gentle prompts like what did your hands learn first or who taught you to wait for readiness. Avoid interrupting; capture questions on sticky notes for later. Offer breaks, mobility aids, and comfortable seating. If emotions arise, pause for breathing. End by reflecting back key phrases heard, ensuring elders feel accurately represented, respected, and celebrated as generous carriers of living experience and guidance.